Gift of Sharing A "Hello"

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Gift of Sharing A "Hello"

 

Once the light returns and the days lengthen, I find the serenity of welcoming summer. In the Midwest, after our wild winter of cold and dark, we begin the ritual of going outside to say hello to our neighbors.

The greeting "hello" is humanity’s need for connection. It is the elixir the soul needs.

Welcoming is the ability to let in the sweet smile of one’s heart and the grace of acknowledging that we are in need of human kindness. A simple, direct nod and greeting allows for an experience of opening and receiving.

We, as humans, need shared moments that give us permission to feel alive and seen. We are in the midst of a human condition of loneliness and isolation. After COVID, we have forgotten how important it is to feel the energy of a collective embrace of belonging.

The greeting of hello is humanity’s need for connection.

I never thought that when I named my yoga center, Yoga Among Friends, it would become such a profound legacy of my own personal need for community.

I knew how important it was for my own existence, as I had lived in LA for years and struggled to feel a true connection. I was going through a divorce, moving constantly to find a home, and not feeling comfortable fitting in with a religious organization or a health club gym that never called my soul.

I always wanted to have a community that allowed me to question and remain curious, without the rigid dogma of limited possibilities. I also never intended the practice of yoga to be seen as only body image or the identity of one’s physical abilities.

I always saw the teachings as a way to embrace self-love and acceptance, and as the gateway to feeling one’s true inner beauty.

When I started teaching yoga, there was never a dress code defined by the fashion industry. I would laugh when most questions about coming into the studio were, “What do I wear?” My response has always been, “Wear what feels comfortable for you.”


Yes, outer identity is what keeps us separated, when the true gift of practicing yoga is that we can drop the outer shell of our containers and be seen as a living, breathing expression of a smile.

It takes a willingness to explore the coming inward and the dropping of an outer protection that hides our inner light. This is not done in one class, nor is it expected to result in some huge transformation.

It is a willingness to be committed to sitting with our awkwardness and to witness the frustration of our physical bodies breathing and moving in new ways.

The shifts in thought that keep us hostage to old beliefs and habits slowly come to our awareness. And with that awareness, a profound shift begins.

Self-love is not self-pleasure or the need to fix ourselves. It is self-acceptance. It is the ability to meet oneself right where one is, and to experience the welcoming of our true self in loving kindness.

It is the ability to receive the greeting of a simple hello that can nourish the empty space in our hearts that has longed to be seen.

Namaste is the simple hello that says, "The light in me sees the light in you."

How beautiful and how lovely to be seen.

Namaste is the simple hello that says: the light in me sees the light in you.

Yoga mats, blankets, and blocks arranged in a peaceful studio at Yoga Among Friends

Ready to step into the studio? Explore our class schedule and find a practice that feels supportive.

I hope to inspire you to come into the studio as a safe haven. To feel the support of being enough, and the willingness to risk dropping the armor of protection that the mind has learned.

Sometimes the mind overprotects and prevents life from coming in.

To breathe, one needs an open physical space, and the mind must feel safe. Tension is a physical response to fear, and it is normal when we are conditioned to doubt everything.

Trust is not the intellect, but the grace of feeling the ease of the intelligence, letting go and allowing something other to be revealed.

Feeling comfortable in our skin is a lifelong journey as we age and navigate all the stages of life.

To celebrate living and to share our hearts together is the true grace that keeps me committed to this sweet studio.

This summer, we are celebrating so many great teachers who are sharing their own expressions of these teachings.

Where in your life are you longing to feel welcomed, seen, or simply greeted with kindness?

We are community, and we are all saying hello.

I hope you join us in a greeting of love.


Frequently Asked Questions

  • Namaste is often understood as a greeting of respect and recognition. At Yoga Among Friends, it is a simple reminder that the light within each of us can recognize and honor the light in another.

  • Yes. Yoga Among Friends welcomes new and returning students with supportive guidance, thoughtful options, and a compassionate place to practice at your own pace.

    If you are new to the studio, our Start Here page can help you begin gently, learn what to expect, and explore the current New Student Intro Offer

  • Yoga is not only a physical practice. Practicing in community can help create moments of connection, belonging, and shared presence, especially when we are longing to feel seen and supported.

 

Not sure where to begin? Reach out and we’ll be happy to help you find a class that feels supportive.

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Need a Tuesday Evening Reset? Meet Grounded Power Flow

Need a Tuesday Evening Reset? Meet Grounded Power Flow

A stronger, steadier yoga class with Lisa Manecke, beginning Tuesday, May 26, at Yoga Among Friends.

Some yoga stories begin with a deep spiritual calling.

Lisa Manecke’s began with a co-worker sprinting out the door with a yoga mat.

It was 1997, and Lisa was working as a marketing assistant in Indianapolis. Once a week, her marketing manager would leave work with her mat tucked under her arm. Lisa asked where she was going.

Yoga.

What Lisa noticed next stayed with her. If this co-worker missed yoga, she was not happy. But when she went, she seemed centered, energized, beautiful, and, as Lisa remembers, “soooo cool.”

So Lisa signed up for a yoga class at the Y the very next week.

“I have been hooked ever since,” she says.

“I have been hooked ever since”


From One First Class to a Lifetime of Practice

Nearly three decades later, Lisa still practices almost every day. Yoga has moved with her through many seasons of life, and it has become something she can return to again and again.

“You really don’t need anything to do it,” Lisa says. “You can do it anywhere — and I have. Any amount of yoga makes you feel better about life.”

That lived love of practice is what she brings to Grounded Power Flow, her new Tuesday evening class at Yoga Among Friends in Downers Grove.

Grounded Power Flow begins Tuesday, May 26, from 6:00–7:15 PM. This active, steady evening class blends mindful movement, breath, strength, and spacious stretching to help students release the day and reconnect to themselves.

Maybe you have had a moment like that, too — seeing someone return from yoga a little softer, lighter, or more like themselves, and wondering, What is happening in that room?

 
 
 

What Lisa’s Class Feels Like

Lisa describes her teaching style as traditional, with a foundation in Ashtanga-based flow. Her own practice is rooted mostly in Ashtanga, and she brings that steady structure into class in a way that is clear, curious, and accessible.

She likes to demonstrate. She likes to pause and workshop a pose. She likes helping students discover a new way in.

“I love to teach students something new,” Lisa says, “or a different way to get into a pose.”

So yes, you can expect to move.
You can expect to build heat.
You can expect strength, stretching, breath, and moments of learning along the way.

Lisa puts it more simply:

“Expect to have fun, sweat, stretch, strengthen, and breathe deeper than you’ve breathed all day.”

“Expect to have fun, sweat, stretch, strengthen, and breathe deeper than you’ve breathed all day.”

This is a full-body practice with steady movement, accessible strength-building, heart-opening stretches, and the kind of breath that helps you return to your body after a long day.

It is active, but not frantic.
Strong, but not harsh.
Grounded, but never boring.

 

Who Grounded Power Flow Is For

Grounded Power Flow is best for students who want a more active yoga practice that still feels mindful, grounded, and supportive.

This class may be a good fit if you are looking for:

  • steady movement after a long day

  • a class that builds strength without losing breath awareness

  • an evening reset that helps you release stress

  • a practice that feels energizing, but not frantic

  • a way to reconnect to your body with more presence and ease

This is not meant to be the gentlest offering on the Yoga Among Friends schedule. If you are brand new to yoga, working with an injury, or looking for a slower, more restorative class, another class may be a better starting place.

But if you are ready to move, breathe, strengthen, and leave feeling clearer than when you arrived, this class may be exactly what your Tuesday evening needs.

 

A Teacher with Deep Roots and a Light Heart

Lisa completed her 200-hour teacher training through Moksha Yoga Chicago in 2004, where she also managed the Lakeview studio. During that time, she immersed herself in every workshop she could.

Over the years, she has practiced with and studied among many influential teachers, including Pattabhi Jois, Ana Forrest, Tim Miller, Kino MacGregor, Shiva Rea, Seane Corn, Baron Baptiste, Rod Stryker, Dharma Mittra, and others.

That depth is part of what makes her teaching feel grounded. But Lisa does not make yoga feel overly serious or out of reach.

Her favorite teaching themes say a lot:

“Any yoga is better than no yoga.”

“Inversions are like happy pills.”

“Backbends are like pancakes. The first two don’t count.”

That is Lisa.

Deep practice, light heart.

Deep practice, light heart.

A traditional foundation, but room to laugh.
A teacher who loves yoga, lives yoga, and still remembers exactly what it felt like to be inspired by someone walking out the door with a mat.

Now she gets to be that person for someone else.


Join Lisa on Tuesday Evenings

Lisa’s hope is simple: that students leave class feeling better than when they arrived.

Less stressed. More relaxed. A little sweaty. More spacious.

And grateful they carved out the time to practice.

Join Lisa for Grounded Power Flow on Tuesdays from 6:00–7:15 PM, beginning May 26, at Yoga Among Friends in Downers Grove.

Come ready to move, breathe, strengthen, sweat a little, and leave feeling more like yourself.

 
 

Shoulder Pain in Yoga: What Teachers Often Miss

Shoulder Pain in Yoga: What Teachers Often Miss

by Jessica Gonsiorowski, RYT 500

A teacher-focused look at how shoulder and neck tension often connects back to thoracic mobility, scapular movement, and compensation patterns.

Shoulder discomfort is one of the most common things yoga teachers see in the yoga room. You’ll see it in newer students who are still learning the shapes, but it can also appear in long-time practitioners who have repeated the same movement patterns for years.

Because the shoulder joint is complex, it’s easy to assume the issue lives right where the student feels it — at the top of the arm, the neck, or the front of the shoulder. But in practice, it’s rarely that simple.

What I’ve found most helpful, both in my own practice and in teaching, is guiding students away from thinking of the shoulder as a single point and toward understanding it as part of a larger, coordinated system.

For yoga teachers, this matters because what we cue depends on what we’re actually seeing in the body. If we only cue the shoulder, we may miss what is happening through the spine, ribs, shoulder blades, or core. A more integrated understanding helps us support students with more clarity and confidence.


The shoulder doesn’t move alone

Take something as common as lifting the arms overhead. It looks straightforward, but for that movement to happen well, several things need to work together:

  • The thoracic spine needs to extend, or gently arch backward.

  • The scapulae, or shoulder blades, need to upwardly rotate and glide smoothly along the ribcage.

  • The humerus, or arm bone, needs to externally rotate.

  • Surrounding muscles need to both stabilize and release at the right time.

When one part of this system is limited, the body will find a workaround. That workaround is often where discomfort begins.

Thoracic mobility: the missing piece

A big one that often gets overlooked is the upper and mid back —the thoracic spine.

If the thoracic spine is stiff, especially in extension, the body still needs to get the arms overhead somehow. So instead of creating movement where it is intended, students may:

  • Arch excessively through the lower back

  • Push the ribcage forward, also known as rib flare

  • Over-recruit the neck and upper trapezius

Over time, this creates a pattern where the shoulder joint is asked to do more than it is designed for, without the support it needs.

Shoulder discomfort in yoga is not always just about the shoulder. It is often a reflection of how the whole system is working together — or compensating.
 

Bringing awareness to the scapula

Another shift that can make a big difference is helping students become more aware of their shoulder blades.

The scapulae are meant to move. For healthy overhead motion, they need to upwardly rotate, slightly elevate, and wrap around the ribcage.

But many students either hold them rigidly in place, often from hearing cues like “pull your shoulders down and back,” or they lack awareness of how their shoulder blades move at all.

Both can interfere with the shoulder's natural mechanics.

Instead of cueing static positions, guide students toward feeling the movement of the shoulder blades — how they slide, rotate, and respond as the arms lift and lower.

The role of the lats and surrounding muscles

Tightness doesn’t always show up where you expect it.

The latissimus dorsi, or lats, are large muscles that connect the arms to the spine and pelvis. When they do not lengthen or “let go” effectively, they can limit the freedom of the arms to move overhead.

When that happens, other muscles often step in to compensate, especially the upper trapezius and neck muscles. This is where students may start to feel gripping, tension, or even pain.

Helping students experience the difference between effort and unnecessary holding can go a long way here.

The underrated role of the serratus anterior

One muscle that deserves more attention in yoga spaces is the serratus anterior. Located along the ribcage, it helps stabilize the shoulder blade, support upward rotation, and connect the arm to the trunk.

In many ways, it functions as part of the deeper core system.

When the serratus is not working effectively, stability often shifts elsewhere—usually to the neck, upper shoulders, or lower back. Building awareness and strength here can make a noticeable difference in weight-bearing poses like plank and downward-facing dog.

Understanding rib flare

Rib flare is another common pattern that shows up in yoga, especially in overhead movements and backbends.

Instead of the movement being distributed through the thoracic spine and shoulder joint, the front of the ribcage pushes forward.

This can create the appearance of a greater range of motion, but it comes at a cost:

  • The core becomes less stable.

  • The relationship between the ribs and pelvis is disrupted.

  • The shoulders lose a stable base to move from.

Over time, this can contribute to both instability and discomfort.

Helping students recognize and adjust this pattern, without over-restricting their breath or movement, is an important piece of the puzzle

What this means for teaching

When we shift the focus from “fixing the shoulder” to understanding the system around it, new options open up.

Instead of asking students to push deeper into a shape, we can guide them to:

  • Notice where the movement is coming from

  • Explore how the shoulder blades are moving

  • Access thoracic extension more intentionally

  • Balance effort and release in surrounding muscles

  • Build support through the serratus and core

These are subtle shifts, but they tend to create more sustainable change.


Want to explore this in person?

Jessica will break down these patterns in her 4-hour continuing education workshop, Thoracic Spine, Shoulders & Neck in Yoga Practice and Teaching, at Yoga Among Friends on Sunday, June 7.

 
 

Closing thought

Shoulder discomfort in yoga is not always just about the shoulder. It is often a reflection of how the ribs, spine, scapulae, core, and arms work together—or compensate for one another.

When students begin to feel that coordination, things often start to change. Not necessarily in how the pose looks from the outside, but in how supported, stable, and spacious it feels from the inside.

For teachers, this kind of understanding can be empowering. You do not need to have all the answers right away, but learning to see these patterns more clearly can help you make better choices in real time — in your cueing, your sequencing, and the way you support the students in front of you.

 

Common Questions Teachers Ask About Shoulder Pain in Yoga

  • Shoulder and neck discomfort can come from several places, including limited thoracic mobility, restricted scapular movement, rib flare, tight lats, or compensation through the upper trapezius and neck.

  • When the upper and mid-back cannot extend well, students may compensate by arching the lower back, pushing the ribs forward, or overworking the neck and shoulders.

  • Teachers will explore how the thoracic spine, shoulders, neck, ribs, and scapulae work together in yoga movement, with practical tools for cueing, observing, and supporting students more effectively.

 

Learn More in Jessica’s Continuing Education Workshop

This is the kind of work Jessica will explore in her upcoming continuing education workshop, Thoracic Spine, Shoulders & Neck in Yoga Practice and Teaching, at Yoga Among Friends.

Teachers will look more closely at the thoracic spine, shoulders, neck, scapulae, rib mechanics, and common compensation patterns, with practical tools you can begin using in your classes right away.

This workshop is designed for yoga teachers who want to feel more confident working with shoulder and neck tension, overhead movement, and weight-bearing postures.

Workshop Details
Date: Sunday, June 7, 2026
Time: 1–5 pm
Location: Yoga Among Friends, Downers Grove, IL
Teacher: Jessica Gonsiorowski
CEUs: 4 Hours

 

Questions about whether this workshop is right for you? Contact Yoga Among Friends.

 

About Jessica Gonsiorowski

Jessica Gonsiorowski, RYT 500

Jessica Gonsiorowski is a Yoga Alliance–registered 500-hour teacher specializing in therapeutic yoga, functional movement, and anatomy-informed teaching. A former Yoga Among Friends teacher, Jessica brings deep knowledge and a familiar connection to this community.

Her teaching focuses on movement patterns and compensation, alignment, and efficiency in the body, therapeutic application in real time, and bridging traditional yoga with modern movement science.

Jessica is known for helping teachers see what is actually happening in the body and translate that understanding into clear, usable teaching. Her approach is practical, observant, supportive, and immediately applicable.

She creates a learning environment that is both professional and deeply approachable, helping teachers build confidence in their own voice, decision-making, and ability to support students with more clarity.

Learn more about Jessica at resilientlifeyogallc.com.